Ryan Patrick, Senior Sales Director for Silvercare Management, a Texas owner/operator of assisted living, memory care, and independent living communities, talks about how to find the right home for you and your loved ones.

“Have you noticed a change in your loved ones’ condition? Are day to day tasks becoming increasingly difficult to perform? If so, this might be a good time to start researching Assisted Living options. 

My name is Ryan Patrick, and I am the Senior Sales Director for Silvercare Management. A Texas based owner/operator of Assisted Living, Memory Care and Independent living communities. 

There are plenty of options to choose from when you are looking for an Assisted Living Community. 

The task of trying to find the best one can seem daunting. If you are like most people, this is probably the first time you will be researching and touring Assisted Living Communities.

First and foremost, you want to determine what type of Assisted Living would be the best fit. Assisted Living communities are either a type A or a type B community. 

Type A communities are  reserved for individuals who are capable of self evacuating during an emergency. One thing to keep in mind if you select a type A community is that at some point in the future, you might be faced with having to move your loved one, if they ever reach the point that they are unable to self evacuate. 

A type B community is able to provide care for individuals who can either self evacuate, or require assistance during an emergency evacuation. Type B communities are also what they call, age-in-place communities. This means that they are able to provide the care your loved one needs until the end of life. 

Now that you have decided which type of community is the best fit, it is time to begin your search for the perfect community

I recommend making a list of 3-5 communities that are in the area you are looking for. You will want to contact each community and set up a tour. Google reviews provide a glimpse into how others feel about the community. There are also other websites where you can find reviews from individuals who have experienced the community. These reviews are easily found with a quick google search. 

Here are the top questions to ask the community sales representative. 

1. What kind of training do your caregivers undergo?
Every community is different, but to hear how they train their staff will give you an idea as to how equipped they are to handle the care of your loved one. 
2. How Many residents currently live in the community?
This will provide some insight into how well liked the community is. And if the size is a good fit for your loved one. 
3. Do you have staff on-site 24/7?
You want to make sure that someone is available 24/7 in the event your loved one needs assistance. Be sure to clarify that they are “on-site” and not “on-call”
4. What kind of meals do you offer?
This question is important, you want to make sure that your loved one is going to be receiving 3 well balanced meals each day. Be sure to ask for a copy of the most recent menu. 

5. What type of activities are available?

Social enrichment is a very important aspect of Assisted Living. Most communities will offer some sort of activity calendar. Be sure to ask for a copy of their current activity calendar.   

6. What is your caregiver to resident ratio?

-This information will shed some light on how much one on one time they will be able to provide your loved one. It is important that there is a good balance to this ratio. 

7. What role do the families play?

-It is important that you find a community that encourages family involvement. You also want to make sure that the families have direct contact with dept heads in the event you need to ask questions regarding your loved ones. 

8. What kind of access do families/friends have to their loved ones?

You want to be sure that there is a visitation policy in place and that it aligns with your availability to come visit. This is also a great time to ask about their policy on taking your loved one out for the day or a quick lunch date. 

9. What 3rd party services are available?

Each community will more than likely have some sort of partnership or relationship with a 3rd party company who can provide support for extra care needs. This ranges from visiting physicians, podiatry. Dentistry, Physical therapy, occupational therapy, etc. 
10. Does the community provide transportation to and from doctors appointments?

The community will most likely provide this service, check for a price, or if it is included. 

Now that you have toured your selected communities, select your top three. Revisit these communities in person and make sure you are confident in your final selection. 

A couple of tips for your return tour, ask if you can come back for a second tour where you can taste the food, or see first hand one of the activities. Any community should be more than happy to accommodate these types of requests. I hope this podcast is a great tool to help you formulate your questions and helps you find the perfect community for your loved one.”



Jami Sanchez, executive director of Lampasas Assisted Living in Lampasas, Texas (one of the Silvercare Living Communities), talks about how to discuss assisted living with your loved one.

“Love your parents. We are so busy growing up that we often forget that they too are growing old. This popular quote rings true for most of us. As we get so busy in our own lives, we often forget our parents are growing older, and that often means they may need assistance with activities of daily living. And this leaves a lot of questions. When should you consider assisted living? When is the right time to discuss assisted living with your mom or dad? This discussion can be very difficult, but with the right information, talking with your parents about assisted living care can be a very easy and stress-free experience for both of you. 

One very important thing to remember is to keep your aging parents involved in the decision making process. Adults are adults, and this includes your elderly parents, especially if they still have a high level of independence and you are talking about long-term care in the upcoming years. Allow them to be involved in where they would like to live their life. If your mom and dad are still able to live their lives and have the mental capacity to make their own decisions, then you should respect their wishes. Older children who become primary caregivers for their parents can become obsessed with the idea of control. Maybe they find it too challenging with the communication and would rather just take charge instead of listening and talking to their mom, dad, or loved one. This is not helpful to either side, and it will only cause more stress in the long run and could possibly even fracture relationships in the process. 

Try to keep emotions out of everything and truly think rationally about assisted living and what’s best for your parents. If this means you talk to a doctor, then please do so, but continue to keep your parents in the know and involved. Remember, if you were growing up, your parents were growing old. If you think it might be time for your parents to consider moving to an assisted living community, you should have the talk with them sooner rather than later. Keep them involved in every step of the decision making process. Although this can be a very tough time for both of you, considering the things that are most important to your parents will make this process less stressful for all of you.”

The executive director of one of the Silvercare Living Communities, Vista Senior Living in Killington, Vermont, Luis Marin, talks about the difference between assisted living and home care.
“When it becomes clear that an elderly family member needs daily care, deciding what to do next might seem overwhelming. Assisted living and home care are two common options that can provide the additional support needed. The primary differences between assisted living and home care are where an individual receives support and the overall cost associated with each type of care.
Assisted living communities offer care, meals, social opportunities, and housing, all in an apartment-style environment. Home care, on the other hand, provides comparable services directly to the elderly. Home assisted living facilities provide housing and care services to active seniors who aren’t able to live independently. This type of care combines housing, support services, and healthcare if needed. These communities help seniors with activities like bathing, dressing, and eating, but they don’t provide ongoing skilled nursing care. Many assisted living communities for seniors offer numerous supportive care options, including the following: medication management, meal services, housekeeping, laundry services, social activities, and assistance with activities of daily living.
In my opinion, one of the greatest differences between assisted living and home care involves a socialization component, which may be compromised in a home care setting. Research conducted by the University of Hartford, where they analyzed results from 148 studies that included a total of 308,849 participants going back to the early 20th century, has shown how important social relationships are for improving survival. Social relationships are found to help improve health, either by protecting individuals from stressful situations or by creating a norm of healthy behaviors. This information is found to be helpful, and if you need any assistance finding the right place, know that the Silver Care family is here to provide you with the resources and lend a helping hand.”
Executive Director Kayla Hanna and Wellness Director Elisha Orozco of Silvercare’s Colonial Lodge Assisted Living talk about how important it is for seniors to stretch every day.

Hi, my name is Kayla Hanna, and I am the Executive Director for Colonial Lodge Assisted Living, a Silvercare community, and I am here with our wellness director, Elisha Orozco. We are going to explain the importance of daily stretching for the senior population.


As you age, joint movement becomes stiffer and less flexible because the amount of lubricating fluid inside your joints decreases and the cartilage becomes thinner. Ligaments also tend to shorten and lose some flexibility, making joints feel stiff. Muscles and joints weaken, and our range of motion deteriorates as we age. Stretching benefits include the development and maintenance of strength, improved flexibility, and increased circulation and blood flow to promote a greater quality of life and healthy aging. The less mobile joints are used, the less flexible and mobile seniors might be, no matter their level of activity. Stretching exercises for seniors are important. Addition to your routine stretching exercises yields many health benefits for seniors, ranging from injury prevention to mobility maintenance.


Exercise is the most effective approach to combat immobility. Although a physical therapist who specializes in seniors is highly suggested, there are many exercises that can be learned and practiced without professional assistance to help elderly people improve their mobility. If you have a chronic condition, including osteoporosis, an injury, or balance issues, talk to your doctor about how you can exercise safely. Some examples would be an overhead side stretch held for 10 to 30 seconds per side. You could do shoulder stretches, tricep stretches, hamstring stretches, and also calf stretches. Generally, elderly and senior stretching should be done two to three days per week. Performing each stretch three to five times with a 20- to 32-second hold Try one or two stretches for each body region. If you would like to increase your flexibility, stretches should be performed four to five days per week. Silver Care Management utilizes third-party occupational therapy and physical therapy services to offer in-home therapies to keep our residents active and moving. Call one of our communities today to schedule a private tour and see if assisted living is a good option for you or your loved one

Connie Johnson, a resident liaison for Windchime at the Village Assisted Living in Kingsland, Texas, talks about the importance of socialization in assisted living.

“Hello, fellow listeners. This is Connie from Windchime Assisted Living out in Kingsland. And I wanted to talk a little bit about the elderly and socialization, especially as it pertains to assisted living. We bring folks in, you know, on a daily basis to come live in our community, and so often the families talk about how isolated they were at home alone or even living with them, because if they’re living with other family members and those folks are busy with work and just their day-to-day lives, it’s hard to give that elderly loved one all the attention that they need. So, we are especially aware of this in the realm of assisted living. We definitely make sure that we find out what their personality is like and if they’re a social person to begin with or if they’re more to themselves, and we adapt accordingly.

We brought a gentleman in a couple months ago, and he is more to himself, but he enjoys his socialization at mealtime, and for him, that’s enough. Other than that, he doesn’t really want to participate in other, you know, activities that we do have going on, but he’s perfectly content, and then we check on him and see him throughout the day. So he is getting, you know, socialization. Uh, a lot of the little ladies though, however, you know, want to be involved in anything and everything, all activities from art projects to bingo, ladies Bible study, you name it, they’re all involved, and they are just like we are. You know, we all need socialization and human touch. I hope this has helped. We just know that we have to value this very much in our assisted living community because we have to know what each individual is like and make sure that they are getting what they need socially.”

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